Today, dating online is a new and exciting discovery that is filled with endless possibilities. Online Dating refers to being introduced to potential dates online, getting to know other people through chat, email and other services and potentially taking a relationship, formed online, into the real world. Typically the goal of online dating is developing a more intimate relationship.

Whilst cyber dating, you are able to dress however you want and have your hair any way you want, but you still have to have some online dating etiquette.  This means others you communicate with will feel a part of you and everything you say will be looked at very critically.

As the number of online users steadily increases, so has the need to set standards for behavior, manners and proper etiquette.

General Guidelines of Online Dating Etiquette

1. Being rude is never justified. It is important to have nice manners and remember what you think is funny others may deem insulting.

2. Profanity should never be used online.

3. This is not set up as a game remember these are real people who have real feelings.

4. Only cyber-search if you are seriously looking for a partner or friend and state your intentions clearly. This cannot be done for kicks or fun.

5. Be a good listener. Almost everyone likes to talk about themselves and this can often lead to great communication.

6. Do not make statements or ask questions that puts someone on the defensive. This includes subjects like religion and politics. These can be discussed in person when you get to know someone better.

7. Capitals and abbreviations should not be used while in a conversation. Capitals indicate yelling and abbreviations can many times be hard to understand and can be annoying. Presentation is key when trying to attract or impress someone else.
8. Do not seem desperate or too eager and do not push anyone into doing something they do not want to do.

10. Talk to your friends first. Online dating is used by many different types of people. Ask people you trust which sites worked for them and which ones they liked. It is better to trust someone’s opinion than to just randomly pick a site.

11. To have the best experience, you have to be honest. You cannot control what others say or do, but you can control and be accountable for yourself. Honesty is much more attractive.

12. Move at a slow pace. The success of online dating and attracting a lasting relationship is going slow.