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Jul 27

John James ‘leaves’ Big Brother House.

By KerryNo Comments

As my husband rolls his eyes and settles himself in front of his computer to escape my nightly viewing of Big Brother 11 I eagerly await the latest news on the Josie/John James saga.

It’s been a dramatic few days in the Josie – John James saga, so we thought we’d do you a favour and give you the low down on the recent events of the past 2 days.

Are you sitting comfortably? Then we’ll begin…

Yesterday afternoon, John James and Josie took their microphones off and began whispering under a duvet in the Bedroom (again). At one point our Aussie boy could be heard telling Josie that he wouldn’t hurt her, but later he said their relationship was becoming like Shabby and Caoimhe.

Josie took offence to this comment replying that she was not the Shabby in the relationship.  As she stormed out of the Bedroom, John James begged her to talk to him. He followed her to the Bathroom and said he never meant to hurt her, and Josie said he hadn’t hurt her, so why is he carrying on? He slammed his fist on the sink and walked out.

John James went to the Bedroom and explained the situation to his new best friend JJ.  The boxer said that John James just wanted to find out how Josie feels and that he was there if he wanted to talk about the situation.  JJ said he would try to talk to Josie later in the afternoon.

John James then walked into the Garden and straight through to the camera runs through a fire escape telling housemates that he was sorry. He spent a few minutes in the camera runs speaking to the BB producers, never properly leaving the house, before returning and going to speak to Big Brother in the Diary Room.

Following this chat, John James had a heart to heart with Josie saying that he didn’t want her to resent him for not liking her as much as she likes him. He continued by saying that his reasons for leaving were not because of her feelings for him but because he couldn’t handle not speaking to her, saying ‘In the outside world I could talk to you properly’.

He apologised to Josie for everything when she said she felt stupid and looks like an idiot. John James said he has been selfish.  Josie says she knows what he’s going to say next, so there’s no need to say it.  Once again, our Aussie softy began to cry under the covers.

But the plot thickens! At 16.35 yesterday afternoon, they kissed!!
The canoodling continued during the night. What will become of these two? Will they ever become the romance of BB11?

How do you think this will pan out? Are you fed up and wish they’d just get it on? Do you even care?

Source of information: Channel4.com/BigBrother

Jul 02

Healthier, Wealthier, But Living Alone!

By KerryNo Comments

Apart from shining a spotlight on the way we live now, the latest ONS Social Trends survey provides a fascinating glimpse of Britain 40 years ago.

It was a place where coal was the biggest single source of domestic energy, where nearly half of all households did not have regular use of a car, where a quarter of men were classified as heavy smokers and where nearly 24 million working days a year were lost to strike action.

Fast forward to the present and it’s the central role played in our lives by new technology that stands out as the most obvious change.

Two thirds of households now have an internet connection, something undreamt of in the 1970s, while 89% have digital TV.

Choices for women

And the energy bill to power all this domestic technology is vast. It’s the equivalent of 6.8 million tonnes of oil every year for lighting and electrical appliances, compared with 2.7 million tonnes in 1970.

But perhaps the most significant changes in our lifestyles over the past generation have been shaped by the greater opportunities and choices available to women.

They’re getting married later – the average age of a first marriage for women is now just two months before her 30th birthday.

The proportion of babies born to women under the age of 25 has halved since 1971. Women now outnumber men in further and higher education.

Those trends are reflected in the rising number of one-person households – from 18% of all households in 1971 to 29% now.

Intriguingly, this survey also found that more than two thirds of people aged 18 or over in Britain believe that they do not need a partner to lead a happy and fulfilled life.

Life expectancy

This question wasn’t asked by the ONS in its first survey in 1970 so, annoyingly, we don’t know how attitudes to the desirability of partners have changed since then – though we can make an educated guess.

In general we’re more likely to live alone than we were 40 years ago, in a house stuffed full of new technology, and we’re living longer. Life expectancy has risen sharply, especially for men, from 68.7 years in 1970 to 77.8 years now.

And deaths from circulatory diseases – strokes and heart attacks – have fallen dramatically with the decline in smoking. In fact, cancer has replaced circulatory disease as the main cause of death in women.

But other risks have increased. Alcohol-related deaths have nearly doubled since the mid-90s. And there’s another even more sobering statistic – 77% of adults aged 65 to 74 in England are now classified as obese or overweight.

It seems that our new lifestyles have brought with them new health dangers.

Source: Greg Wood – BBC News

Jun 23

Budget June 2010

By Kerry2 Comments

So the emergency Budget as been set and here is an outline of the details. Why not let us know what impact this will have on you and your family?

VAT

Rate will rise from 17.5% to 20% from January 4, 2011.

Personal income tax allowance: To be increased by £1,000 in April to £7,475 – worth £170 a year to basic rate taxpayers. It is expected that 880,000 of the lowest-paid will be taken out of income tax altogether.

Council tax: Could be frozen for one year from April 2011 in England, but extra funds will only be offered to councils which keep their own costs down. Worth about £35 per household.

CAPITAL GAINS TAX

To rise from 18% to 28% from midnight for higher rate taxpayers. The “entrepreneur’s relief” rate of 10% on the first £2m of gains will be extended to the first £5m.

A 50p a month “landline tax” to fund the rollout of fast broadband will be scrapped – instead the government will support private investment, partly funded by the digital switchover under-spend within the TV licence fee.

The balance of spending cuts to tax rises would be 77% to 23%.

CIGARETTES, ALCOHOL AND FUEL

No increases this time round. Labour’s plan to increase the duty on cider by 10% above inflation will be scrapped from July.

BENEFITS

Child benefit: Frozen for the next three years.

Tax credits: Reduced for families earning over £40,000 next year. But low income families will get more Child Tax Credit – the amount per child will rise by £150 above the rate of inflation next year – at an annual cost of £2bn.

Housing benefit: New maximum limit of £400 a week for properties with more than three bedrooms.£250 a week for a one-bedroom flat, £290 for a two-bedroom property and £340 for a three-bed property, to save £1.8bn a year by the end of the Parliament.

Unemployed people will see their Housing Benefit cut by 10%, after 12 months of claiming Jobseekers Allowance from April 2013.

It will also be cut for people of working age who are in larger homes than their family size warrants but, from April 2011, disabled claimants who do not have a resident carer will be able to claim for an extra bedroom.

Health in pregnancy grant to be abolished from April 2011, the Sure Start maternity grant will be restricted to the first child.

Lone parents, will be expected to look for work when their youngest child goes to school.

Excluding the state pension and pension credit, from 2011 benefits, tax credits and public service pensions will rise in line with the Consumer Price Index, rather than the, generally higher, Retail Price Index, saving over £6 billion a year by the end of the Parliament.

The government will introduce a medical assessment for Disability Living Allowance from 2013 for new and existing claimants.

The welfare shake-up will save £11bn by 2014/15.

PUBLIC SECTOR PAY

Public sector workers face a two-year pay freeze if they earn over £21,000. Those earning less £21,000 will get a flat pay-rise worth £250 in both years.

Armed services personnel in Afghanistan will see their operational allowance doubled to £4,800 – as announced by David Cameron two weeks ago.

PENSIONS

The basic state pension will be linked to earnings from April 2011, with the pension guaranteed to rise in line with earnings, prices or 2.5%, whichever is the greater.

The government will accelerate the increase in state pension age to 66 – a “call for evidence” will be made later this week.

The government will also consult on phasing out the default retirement age – to ensure those who want to work past 65 are able to do so.

Former Labour Work and Pensions Secretary John Hutton to review public sector pensions, ahead of the autumn spending review.

BUSINESS

From April 2011, the threshold at which employers start to pay National Insurance will rise by the rate of inflation plus £21 per week.

Corporation Tax will be cut next year to 27%, and by 1% annually for the next three years, until it reaches 24%.

The small companies’ tax rate will be cut to 20%.

Tax relief for the video games industry will be scrapped.

BANKS

A bank levy will be introduced, which will apply to the balance sheets of UK banks and building societies and the UK operations of foreign banks from January 2011. But smaller banks will not have to pay. It is expected to raise over £2bn a year.

ENVIRONMENT

The government will “explore changes to the aviation tax system” such as switching from a per-passenger to a per-plane levy. It will consult on major changes.

Government looking at reforming the climate change levy “to provide more certainty and support to the carbon price”. Proposals to be published in the autumn.

The Office for Budget Responsibility will assess the effect of oil price fluctuations on the public finances over the summer, before the government looks at options for a “fair fuel stabiliser” – which would see fuel duty fall when prices go up, and vice versa.

Case for rural fuel duty discount is under consideration.

REGIONS

White Paper to be published on tackling regional economic differences in Britain later in the summer, followed by a paper on rebalancing the economy of Northern Ireland.

The upgrade of the Tyne and Wear Metro, extension of the Manchester Metrolink, redevelopment of Birmingham New Street station and improvements to the rail lines to Sheffield and between Liverpool and Leeds will go ahead.

A Regional Growth Fund will be created to help fund regional capital projects over two years.

People setting up new businesses outside London, the South East and the east of England will be exempt from £5,000 of National Insurance payments for the first 10 workers.

UK ECONOMY

Growth forecast revised down from 2.6% to 2.3% in 2011.

The economy is predicted to grow by 1.2 % this year, 2.3% next year, 2.8% in 2012, 2.9% in 2013 and 2.7% in both 2014 and in 2015.

Debt to peak in 2013/14 at 70% of GDP.

Unemployment is forecast to peak this year at 8.1% and then fall for each of the next four years, to reach 6.1% in 2015.

Consumer price inflation is expected to reach 2.7% by the end of 2010 before “returning to target in the medium term”. The inflation target remains at 2%, as measured by the Consumer Prices Index.

The UK is set to miss the previous government’s “golden rule” – of borrowing only to invest over the economic cycle – in the current cycle by £485bn.

BORROWING

Underlying current budget deficit should be “in balance” by 2015/16.

Public sector net borrowing will be £149bn this year, £116bn next year, £89bn in 2012-13 and £60bn in 2013-14.

By 2014-15 borrowing to reach £37bn, falling to £20bn in 2015-16.

SPENDING

Mr Osborne said the state now accounted for “almost half” of all national income which was “completely unsustainable”.

Average real terms budget cuts of 25% over four years – except for health and international aid. Departmental cuts amount to a further £17bn by 2014-15, on top of those already planned.

But current expenditure to rise from £637bn in 2010-11 to £711bn in 2015-16 – partly due to rising debt interest payments.

No further reductions in capital spending totals but there will be “careful choices” about how the money was spent. Projects with “a significant economic return to the country” would be prioritised.

May 31

Dating A Single Parent.

By Kerry1 Comment

Single parent dating tips have to address issues that people without children don’t ever have to worry about. Let’s face it – being a single parent is pretty difficult at times to begin with. Throw trying to establish a special adult relationship into the mix and you’ve got lots of complications. I’ve put together some single parent dating tips that can help simplify things so that you can relax and enjoy dating again.

Explaining it to Your Kids.
When you are going out on a date, let your kids know that you’re going out with a friend. It’s a simple, honest explanation. Especially with younger kids, no more details are needed; if they ask who the friend is, simply say that it is someone from work, a friend of your neighbour, or whoever it is. Don’t try to explain too much – simpler is better.

Avoiding Resentment.
Don’t introduce your children to someone you’re dating until you’re pretty sure the relationship is going somewhere. Meeting several different people over time will only confuse them, and they may come to resent your dating anyone at all.

Introduce Your New Friend Slowly.
Once you’re ready to introduce your significant other to your children, do so slowly. The first time, it should be simply ice cream or perhaps some time in the park. Gradually allow more time with the kids and include them on some appropriate “family dates.”

Your Children Come First.
Here is a very important single parent dating tip: make it clear from the beginning that your children will come first in any situation. If this seems to be a problem for anyone you’re seeing, it’s time to stop the relationship. Any man or woman who is jealous of your children isn’t a good bet for a relationship.

Your Commitments Come First.
If you’re a single parent who only sees his children every other weekend or a similar schedule, make this clear. Tell someone you are dating that you won’t be available on those weekends, and stick to it until you’re ready to have everyone get together. This reassures your children and gives the person you’re dating an idea of the commitment involved in dating someone with children.

Don’t Move Too Quickly.
If you allow your kids to get close to someone early on, only to break up with them a few months later, they will end up hurt and confused. This is especially essential if you’re just starting to date again or if you’ve recently divorced.

Listen to Your Kids.
Once your children have met someone you’re dating, listen to their input. (A dating tip I got from a lot of single parents). This doesn’t mean axing your social life if your son or daughter says, “I don’t want you to date anymore,” without a good explanation. However, if he or she says they really don’t like him because he yells at them, doesn’t pay attention to them or just makes them uncomfortable, listen. Discuss the concerns with your companion, watch how he or she interacts with your children and put some real thought into the situation.

Don’t Parade Your Date in Front of an Ex.
It may be tempting to let your ex know that you’ve moved on, but it’s unfair to use a date as a weapon. Your children will no doubt mention that you’re dating when they are with their other parent, and that’s fine. Don’t ask them to keep it a secret or they will feel like you are doing something wrong. Simply let things take their course, and answer their questions honestly.

Reassure Your Children.
Reassure your children that dating someone is completely separate from your love for them. Explain the importance of having a special adult in your life, but that it doesn’t diminish your feelings for them.

These single parent dating tips won’t guarantee completely smooth sailing, but it will make the process less confusing for everyone concerned.

Feb 09

How dating has changed in the last 30 years.

By adminNo Comments

As time and technology have progressed the ways of finding romance have changed. The Internet and World Wide Web have spawned growth and popularity in the world of online dating. It has become acceptable and even commonplace for one to say that they found their partner on a dating site. Let’s take a brief history course on the evolution of dating from the bar scene to the present day and age where it’s easier to find the love of your life in a virtual world than it is in the real world.

In the 1980’s and early 90’s the bar scene was the way to find love or lust. Dark smoky rooms echoing with thumping pop songs or techno were filled with sweaty, gyrating bodies smelling of Kouros all searching for spots on the dance floor. Your best game as a man was to have a great line and a prayer that you didn’t get slapped in the face. For the ladies, it was a lot easier due to the sheer ratio of men to women. Of course, if you could avoid the overly macho idiots, you were ten steps ahead of your competition.

If you were lucky enough to find a partner to dance with, you were blessed with the privilege of yelling over the music and the crowd in order to exchange names. When all was said and done, you knew nothing about your dance partner and there was a distinct possibility that he or she wouldn’t even give you their number. The meat market was open, but not everyone was buying.

In the mid-90’s we were given the World Wide Web. This virtual environment quickly spawned Web sites with chat rooms where written records of wanton lust were archived on servers that sat between lovers who were often on opposite sides of the globe. From the beginning, the Web has had a reputation for augmenting the idea that sex and love are two of the most important things in life. The better you were at creating lust-filled prose, the more response you would get. Unfortunately, many of these sites had no privacy. Eventually, if you spent enough time learning about a person, you might get the opportunity to meet them. This type of behaviour also raised the distinct possibility that you were on your way to meet a psycho, sex-crazed, serial killer.

As time went on, a more progressive form of online dating evolved around the world. Dating services that provided an online and secure environment began to pop-up. Most of the sites catered to single women and men though, and provided a more standard form of dating. If you were a married wife looking for a bit of love, good luck, the site would weed you out in a heartbeat, unless you lied on your profile. Even if you were accepted into the site, there was no guarantee that you would find what you were looking for. Most sites did not cater to gay men or women, nor did they promote casual meet ups for no-strings-attached sex. If dating sites were a sexual position in the late 90’s they would have been the “missionary position”.

The new millennium brought about a refreshed and invigorated view of relationships around the globe. Inhibitions began to fall away and dating Web sites began to cater to as many different orientations as possible. Obviously, taboos such as paedophilia and bestiality are still, thankfully, taboo and in most cases illegal. However, a new view of dating from many different standpoints has taken root. Web sites now cater to both straight and gay people and one that is growing fast is Dating Granny. They also provide services for those who are looking to fulfil fantasies that they might not be able to fulfil within their own marriage. Couples seeking singles or singles seeking couples have become commonplace and casual sex with an “f-buddy” have become a main draw for many of these sites.

The technology behind these sites has also become more sophisticated. Profiles are matched based not only on gender, but likes and dislikes, sexual orientation, casual encounters, fantasy and many other bits of data such as proximity. Safety has also become a major issue as well and age verification has become an important precaution with these sites.

Online dating is no longer a game of anonymity that hides behind a phosphorous screen in the middle of the night in mum or dad’s basement. The sites are legitimate and when used with common sense, safe. They work and have provided many people with an excellent outlet for their sexual needs.

Feb 09

Online Dating Etiquette.

By Kerry1 Comment

Today, dating online is a new and exciting discovery that is filled with endless possibilities. Online Dating refers to being introduced to potential dates online, getting to know other people through chat, email and other services and potentially taking a relationship, formed online, into the real world. Typically the goal of online dating is developing a more intimate relationship.

Whilst cyber dating, you are able to dress however you want and have your hair any way you want, but you still have to have some online dating etiquette.  This means others you communicate with will feel a part of you and everything you say will be looked at very critically.

As the number of online users steadily increases, so has the need to set standards for behavior, manners and proper etiquette.

General Guidelines of Online Dating Etiquette

1. Being rude is never justified. It is important to have nice manners and remember what you think is funny others may deem insulting.

2. Profanity should never be used online.

3. This is not set up as a game remember these are real people who have real feelings.

4. Only cyber-search if you are seriously looking for a partner or friend and state your intentions clearly. This cannot be done for kicks or fun.

5. Be a good listener. Almost everyone likes to talk about themselves and this can often lead to great communication.

6. Do not make statements or ask questions that puts someone on the defensive. This includes subjects like religion and politics. These can be discussed in person when you get to know someone better.

7. Capitals and abbreviations should not be used while in a conversation. Capitals indicate yelling and abbreviations can many times be hard to understand and can be annoying. Presentation is key when trying to attract or impress someone else.
8. Do not seem desperate or too eager and do not push anyone into doing something they do not want to do.

9. Determine what your goals are! Are you online dating for entertainment, to hang out, or look for a one night stand or a long term relationship? To determine this you need to determine what your goals are and work towards them.

10. Talk to your friends first. Online dating is used by many different types of people. Ask people you trust which sites worked for them and which ones they liked. It is better to trust someone’s opinion than to just randomly pick a site.

11. To have the best experience, you have to be honest. You cannot control what others say or do, but you can control and be accountable for yourself. Honesty is much more attractive.

12. Move at a slow pace. The success of online dating and attracting a lasting relationship is going slow.

Feb 09

First Date Advice.

By KerryNo Comments

Online dating may be popular way to find someone special, but you still need to apply some safety precautions when you arrange to meet for your first date.

Precautions
Always agree to meet somewhere public, and at a time of day when there are a good number of people around. Always tell a close friend or family member when and where you are meeting. Take a cell phone, and make sure you know the route home. Don’t get stranded. Don’t miss the last train.

Location
So you’ve clicked with someone online, and have now decided to meet. But where? The choice will always be a personal one, but you should at least ensure you meet somewhere public and as mentioned above, always meet somewhere busy. Of course, you’ll want to actually hear each other, so avoid noisy nightclubs that don’t have a quiet area! A good restaurant is a great choice! But be sure not to try something too unusual – unless of course you know you’re both into the unusual!

What to wear
First impressions always count. Choose something both smart and comfortable.

What to say
Avoid talking entirely about yourself and do show an interest in your potential partner; for example, compliment their outfit, hair, jewelry. Compliments like these are a gentle way of saying you’re attracted to that person. Avoid controversial subjects to start, at least until you get to know each other. It’s true to say most of us like to talk about ourselves, but remember to be a good listener!
Open the conversation with something light: Almost everybody likes movies, music and good food!

Feb 08

The Top Ten Do’s and Don’ts for Men on Valentine’s Day

By admin5 Comments

The Valentine’s Day Don’ts

1. Don’t forget. I think that the worst thing I could do about Valentine’s Day is forgetting all about it. Put it on your calendar in big red letters. And a few days before, make sure you put a reminder in your day planner or your PDA.

2. Don’t buy kitchen appliances. Or anything else practical. Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a little extravagant. A new blender is not—I repeat, is not—romantic. Whatever gift you choose should be nice and out of the ordinary.

3. Don’t do the same thing you did last year. Even if it worked well, your partner will appreciate something new and different. She wants to know that you thought about her as you planned your Valentine’s Day gift or event.

4. Don’t give her lingerie. Now, I know the people at LaSenza will not like this, but lingerie is a very dangerous gift. You can get the wrong size, which is a big problem. You can get the wrong color. But most importantly, when guys give lingerie they often have one thought in mind, and giving lingerie can really backfire. Just resist the temptation and be a little more creative.

5. Don’t have unrealistic expectations. While your partner wants to be pampered, you also have to understand that her day is filled with many demands—kids, work, house, and more. Make sure you go the extra mile, but keep your expectations realistic and in check.

6. Don’t overspend. Particularly if you share a bank account and a credit card with your sweetheart, breaking the bank is a bad idea. Keep within your budget and have the nicest evening you can afford. If it is too much, she’ll likely be panicked about money and too stressed to have fun.

7. Don’t talk about an ex. One of the surest ways to spoil a Valentine’s Day evening is to have your partner think you are thinking about another woman. Don’t talk about your former wife or girlfriend; keep the conversation focused on your woman and life will be better.

8. Don’t give her a generic card. She will not be impressed with the nicest card from the local supermarket if you just sign your name. Add a note about how much you love her, how much she means to you, and any other positive feelings you have. The personal part is what is romantic to her, not how much lace is on the card or how much you spent on it.

9. Don’t do guy stuff. Your favorite team may be playing at home, or you may be tempted to take her to a sports bar for dinner. Just don’t. This is her night, so stay away from the guy stuff, and put her first. You can always record the match and watch it tomorrow.

10. Don’t spend the night online. Too many of us tend to get in front of the computer late at night for gaming, chatting or other online stuff. For this one night, leave the computer off and focus on your woman. She will be grateful for your undivided attention.

What To Do On Valentine’s Day

1. Send a gift to work. If your partner is employed, delivering or sending a Valentine’s Day gift to work is a welcome idea. It will show her in front of her peers that she is loved and remembered on Valentine’s Day.

2. Make a homemade Valentine. Cards from the store are nice, but your partner will really know you love her if you take the time to make your own Valentine card. Get out the scissors, red construction paper, white paper doilies and glue and get started. Your own little verse would add just the right touch. Taking time to do something out of the ordinary is romantic.

3. Cook for her. Once again, doing something out of the routine is an important way to show you care. Breakfast in bed, or cooking a romantic dinner for two can be fun for you and let her know you were willing to go the extra mile.

4. Remember romance. Valentine’s Day for your partner is all about romance. That means taking the time to do the little extras like dressing up for your dinner out, leaving little love notes around, or being on time for your commitments. While guys aren’t often good at romance, it is important to her. Try to see yourself as she sees you and then deliver beyond her expectation.

5. Turn off the electronics. While we live in a fast paced time with cell phones or personal digital assistants running our lives, Valentine’s Day is not a time for interruptions. Turn off the phone, the Palm or Blackberry, and focus your attention on your significant other.

6. Write her a love letter. This is not an email, a text message or a card, but a real love letter. In your own handwriting, tell her what she really means to you. Tell her why you would choose her all over again if you had to. Remind her why you are thrilled that she is your kids’ mum. She’ll keep that letter as a cherished part of her life.

7. Watch a chick flick. Sure, you’d rather be watching the latest gangster film or the Match, but she’ll appreciate you sitting through a romantic movie. Consider The Lake House, While You Were Sleeping, You’ve Got Mail or Sleepless in Seattle if you are looking for one that you both might enjoy.

8. Offer her a massage. Many Valentine’s Day experts recommend a day spa gift certificate as a great gift option for your sweetheart, but I think a personal massage is a wonderful alternative. Giving your woman a good foot massage or a solid back rub can really make her relax and feel good. Learn some massage techniques, pick up some massage oil and work out those stiff muscles.

9. Consider spreading gifts throughout the day. Rather than one big gift, you should try giving her a number of smaller gifts during the day. Maybe one gift at breakfast, leave one on the front seat of her car or in her medicine chest in the bathroom, one at work, and then another one on the front seat of her car before she leaves work. Going the extra mile to remember her during the day will pay big dividends in how she reacts the rest of the day.

10. Just relax. While I know these ideas sound like a lot of work, it is important to not overdo it. Don’t try to cram too much into the day or into the evening. A leisurely pace is an important component of making Valentine’s Day great for your woman.

Good Luck

Matchmeup x

Feb 08

Don’t scare the women away with your emails.

By adminNo Comments

A small number of guys on Matchmeup have not got a clue when it comes to sending emails to our lovely Female members. Here at Matchmeup We want you to find your Match, not scare them off, So we have listed the messages you DON’T send.

1 – Get the Picture right - Believe it or not most women are not interested in how big your Manhood is and even less interested when they don’t even know who owns it.

2 – Never ask her to have Sex with You! Asking for sex on the Second Email Exchange is completely offensive and rude. Women like to  talk and understand more about people. If you want a short flame, you can always refer to adult websites that fulfill the goal.

3 - Don’t expect that phone call – Do not think for one minute that using the line ‘Hi sweetheart my number is 07849 577### give me a call I’m free this weekend’ means she is going to rush to the phone and call you. Most of the guys that send this do not even bother to place an image in their profile. So think about it would you phone a random number out of the phone book and offer to take them out?

4 – Never ask her for a naked picture – Doing so, definitely is an insult. It won’t help you to earn her faith. You can request for her image in exchange of yours but do not ask for the nude image.

5 – Never Send Nasty Emails – If for example she hasn’t replied to your messages, just move on. Don’t send a nasty email enquiring why the hell she has not replied Besides it’s her decision to contact you or not.

If your not into sending messages then Please,Please,Please place a photo on your profile because if you do not then you will never receive a message.

Good luck

Matchmeup x

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