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How To Say I Love You Without Saying A Word.

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There are actually several ways to say I love you even with the absence of words. Remember that action speaks louder than words. Words may not be enough to show someone you love him or her.

1. Let go of your past

One way to say I love you even with the absence of words is to let go of your past. When you completely let go of your past, you are actually telling him how much you love him or her. When you are tied up with your past, you are just giving him or her doubtful thoughts regarding your true feelings. When the person you love learns and feels you have completely forgotten your past, you are actually telling him or her I love you.

2. No comparisons

Another way to say I love you even with the absence of words is to never have comparisons. Do not compare him or her to anybody; especially with your ex. Always make him or her feel that she is special and a unique individual, and that you love him or her for who she is. When you make that person feel that he or she is incomparable, you are actually silently telling him or her I love you.

3. Accept flaws and weaknesses

This is one of the best ways to say I love you even with the absence of words. You do not actually demand for a person to change if you love him or her. You accept the person for who she or he is, and cover up the weaknesses. This is one of the greatest ways to say I love you. Saying I love you may not be enough.

Consider these three ways and let that someone feel how much you love them!

Ground Zero Mosque.

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Was President Obama’s support for the right to build the “Ground Zero mosque” in New York really out of step with America as his opponents would say – or a reflection of the ambiguity many of its citizens feel about this divisive, but nuanced issue?

When Mr Obama waded into the political debate over the proposed Islamic community centre and mosque in lower Manhattan on Friday, many Republican strategists rejoiced.

In the lead up to hotly contested congressional elections in November, the comments seemed like a gift – Mr Obama handing opponents cannon fodder with which to blast Democrats.

Democratic hopes in the mid-term elections are perhaps best served by keeping to local issues, diverting attention away from a bleak national economy, unpopular wars and a president with dragging approval ratings.

Yet the Ground Zero mosque debate transcends local politics. It’s highly-charged, invoking emotional ideas of American identity and religious respect through the prism of the most defining and traumatizing incident in the nation’s recent history.

For months it simmered on the edges of the national political scene, a tantalizing wedge issue for conservatives even as key Democrats skirted the discussion.

But now, Mr Obama’s comments have firmly transformed this local New York squabble into a billowing national debate.

He told guests at a Friday dinner honouring the Islamic holy month of Ramadan that America’s commitment to religious freedom must be “unshakeable”, and that Muslims in America have every right to practice their faith.

“That includes the right to build a place of worship and a community centre on private property in lower Manhattan, in accordance with local laws and ordinances,” Mr Obama said.

The following day, Mr Obama clarified those comments, saying that his remarks referred only to the right of Muslims to build their centre, not the wisdom of choosing a site so close to Ground Zero.

To hear conservatives tell it, Mr Obama had just undermined the electoral chances of vulnerable Democrats, granting Republicans a legitimate way to push opponents to take a stand on this thorny and divisive issue.

But whether Mr Obama’s comments are really out of step with views of the American public depends which poll you believe.

Rights v tastes

This poll from CNN suggests that they are: 68% of respondents state opposition to the Ground Zero mosque.

A Marist poll of voters in New York City found 53% opposed the mosque. Only 34% thought it would facilitate cultural understanding while half thought it was offensive.

But neither poll questions voters on the direct substance of Mr Obama’s remarks: the right of the Islamic community to build the mosque. That right is enshrined in the US constitution.

It’s an important nuance in the debate, and one that simple “yes or no” polls often fail to capture. Americans can both support the right to build a mosque at the same time that they oppose the building of this particular mosque so close to a delicate site.

It’s not necessarily inconsistent to be bothered by the presence of a mosque near the site of a devastating attack by jihadists, but still defend the universal right of the faithful to practice their religion without restrictions or interference from the government.

A recent poll by Fox News draws out that distinction. It asked respondents first if they believed that the Ground Zero mosque was appropriate. An overwhelming 64% replied that it was not.

The follow-up question asked if the Muslim group had the right to build the mosque, to which a similarly large proportion – 61% – responded that yes, they do.

Clearly there is an overlap between Americans who support the right to build the mosque but maintain a belief that it’s a poor decision to do so.

That’s the same ground Mr Obama straddled with his comments last weekend.

But whether the public heard the nuance in the communicator-in-chief’s remarks – or whether his comments will be lost in frenzy of cable chatter over their supposed political toxicity – may not be clear until November.

We would love to hear your thoughts on this. Do you think this should go ahead , or do you think it should be built elsewhere?

Source: BBC news.

Big Brother : John James “Josie, I’m In Love With You”

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Big Brother’s final romance seems to be one built to last if Josie’s shock confession to Corin is anything to go by… apparently the Aussie has told his farmer Mrs that he is in love with her.

Corin & Josie were having a fag in the BB garden when Josie told her perma-tanned mate; “He went ‘I’m so in love with you’ and he said ‘I’m going to move from Australia to be with you.’”

Josie confided: “I haven’t had anyone that has loved me before, like that. Well, if he means it.” To which a confused Corin questioned: “Why would he say it if he didn’t?

Self-conscious Josie said she didn’t know and revealed more about the romantic exchange: “I said ‘do you think that you will still feel the same when you get outside?’ And he said ‘yeah’ and I said ‘so do I’.”

I think John James is just playing games what do you all think?

British Government Donates £5m to Pakistan Flood Victims

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THE British Government pledged £5 million today to help hundreds of thousands of those left homeless by Pakistan’s flood disaster.

International Development Secretary Andrew Mitchell said at least 800,000 people would benefit from the new UK aid, which will go towards providing safe drinking water, hygiene kits and toilets.

Up to 1,200 people have died and two million have fled their homes since heavy monsoon rains caused floods across huge swathes of north-west Pakistan.

The British aid, which is being channelled through the United Nations Children’s Fund (Unicef), will buy about 136,000 hygiene kits, 4,560 toilets, 336,000 bars of sanitising soap, 270,000 buckets or jerry cans, 400,000 water purification kits and 800,000 water purification tablets.

The UK’s Department for International Development has already contributed another £5 million to the UN-run Pakistan Emergency Response Fund.

This will pay for food, shelter, water, sanitation and healthcare for thousands of people affected by the floods.

Mr Mitchell said: “I know many British people are deeply concerned by the terrible suffering caused by the ongoing monsoon floods in Pakistan.

“The government of Pakistan is leading the relief efforts, and the UK is ready to help in any way we can.

“The UK’s contribution to the emergency relief effort will help limit disease and further deaths by helping provide safe drinking water, food, toilets, medical care, and other essential items to at least 800,000 people in Pakistan affected by the monsoon floods.”

What are your thoughts on this? I have been reading through many blogs and comments left on news sites and it seems the nation is split. Should we be offering help to countries that need it or should the money be put towards much needed services etc in the UK?

Source of information: Dailyrecord.co.uk

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